WHAT'S YOUR BIGGEST REGRET?
"Had I known" has to be the most painful words anyone can say to themselves.Everyone has had that one point in their lives that they were forced to use those words.Mine was in late 2019 when I realized How lost I have became and how I have become my own worst enemy and became a slave to my own urges, bad habits and addictions.Just almost like everyone during their teenage years, mine was also curiosity driven,I wanted to try everything new, I was eager to know what sex felt like, what it was to have a smoke, wanted to become a millionaire by gambling e.t.cAccompanying these bad habits was also partying, alcoholism, drug intakes, procrastination and many more.From wanting to experience sex, I ended up getting Addicted to porn and masturbation,Smoking a stick of cigarette led me into smoking marijuana and it's colleagues,Playing small lotto led me to start wasting my entire resources on sports bets.So also did every other bad habit keep increasing and growing into uncontrollable addictions that have long lasting side effects on my life.We repeat bad habits as a result of the pleasures and comforts that comes with it,And we keep wanting more and more of this pleasure and this is what gives birth to our Addictions.An Addiction is something you have no control over, this makes you a slave to your urges and Addictions.From my experience with bad habits and Addictions, I know how much harm they bring to both your mental and physical wellbeing.We often engage with smoking, drugs, alcohol and their likes because we want to escape reality and be free from our problems and pains.But we fail to understand that our pains will never go away until we deal with it's root cause,And our problems will not disappear into thin air until we calm our mind and tackle the problems head on.Escaping your Pains and problems or trying to bury it will only make them keep growing and accumulating into something even much worse, this is the point where DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY hits the hardest.We also engage with smoking, drugs, alcohol and their likes just so we can feel high and experience that adrenaline rush.According to the law of gravity, anything that goes up will surely come down.You can't be high forever, your adrenaline can't rush forever, not even your boosted confidence and courage will last forever.The effects from the substances you abused will wear off in less than 24hrs and it will take away your natural energy, focus and courageIt will make you dependent on it for your energy, adrenaline or courage.Spending so much time, energy, focus and concentration binge watching internet porn does no good to you but will corrode your mind, brain and body.That's why you feel empty, tired and left with no energy to do other tasks, you simply become lazy and have no zeal to carry on with your other daily tasks.Staying up late at night by 1am or 3am just to masturbate will deprive you of good hours of sleep and will make you less productive during the day,You will wake up late, tired and unmotivated and with almost no energy to do things that mattered.One thing you should understand is that masturbation is wasting the most priceless fluid in your body.Forty meals make a drop of blood, 40 drops of blood make a drop of bone marrow, 40 drops of bone marrow make a drop of semen.Wasting this semen on masturbation is what is draining your energy, willpower, self discipline and killing you slowly from the inside out.Without the right source of energy, you lack confidence, and with your mind and body corroded,You will start sexualizing everything and won't even be able to approach a lady or stabilize your relationship.Porn and masturbation will take your masculinity away from you.We see gambling as some kind of investment and we become addicted to it after losing 9 times and winning a small portion on the 10th try.That small winning that doesn't equal 2% of your losses will trick you into believing that continuing with it will give you a big win very soon…. Of course that big win almost never comes.I lost quality friends due to my Addictions to smoking, alcoholism and drug intakes, I was instead attracting junkies to myself as friends.My businesses and career were falling apart due to my lack of focus and dedication to my work.I was busy investing my time, focus and energy into porn and masturbation.I couldn't save a penny or even foot my bills because of my gambling Addictions.Procrastination was eating me up, I was having constant ANXIETY and was becoming a shadow of myself.I couldn't even handle my relationship because porn and masturbation already corroded my mind, left me with no confidence and zero communication skills.No money, friends and family deserted, this all led me into DEPRESSION.But everything changed during late 2019/early 2020.This was when I decided to invest in the best and biggest project of my life, that project was MYSELF.They say " in life, you don't get what you want, you get what you are"I was hungry for a breakthrough and success and to achieve that, I needed to transform myself.I needed to win the battle against my Addictions and Bad habits.I needed to BECOME A BETTER VERSION OF MYSELF.So I embarked on a self help journey to cleanse myself off my bad habits and Addictions.If you are currently fighting same demons as I did back then, if you are fighting to gain back control of your life and break free from your Addictions and bad habits,Here are 2 simple steps to take that can help you get started.The truth - The first step towards gaining back control over your own life and being free from your Addictions and Bad habits, is accepting the truth.I'm not a religious guy, but there is a place in the Holy Bible that states that " Know the truth and the truth shall set you free" .When I initially wanted to quit my Addictions, I always never lasted more than 48 hours,And that's because my brain was always coming up with an excuse for me to go back to my Addictions and bad habits.My brain was always tricking me into repeating those regretful bad habits.The reason your brain will always trick you into doing a bad Habit is because of something called DOPAMINE.Dopamine is a reward hormone that your body releases into your brain whenever a task is completed.It is a pay or reward to your brain whenever it helps, does or completes a task.Dopamine is naturally supposed to be released to the brain in tiny portions as a reward when tasks are completed.But your brain receives large amount of Dopamine whenever you are engaging with bad habits and Addictions,And that's because of the huge amount of pleasure and comfort that comes with these Addictions and bad habits.It's that feeling you get from masturbating, smoking, taking pills, Gambling e.t.c.It is because of this reward of dopamine that the brain receives when you do these addictions, is why it will always continue to trick you into doing those bad habits .Your brain will do anything to make sure it continues receiving such a huge amount of dopamine. That's why it will continually make up excuses for you, like;"Smoking energize you, smoking will help you deal with pain, smoking will help you escape your problems, masturbation will save you from S.T.Ds , Porn is fun and healthy, one big bang from gambling will make you super rich" .e.t.cThese are all false and lies that your brain feeds you so that you can continue doing its bidding and addictions, while it continues to receive it's reward of dopamine.Don't listen to your brain, it's a trick.Be brave enough to accept the truth that your addictions are bad, accept its consequences and stand your ground to quit those addictions.THE BIG WHY - another step to take towards quitting your addictions is by restoring your willpower through what I call THE BIG WHY.
If you have a big reason why you want to quit a habit then it will become easier to do so.Your reason will act as a motivation and also will fuel your drive and willpower to quit that habit.When I talk about having a BIG WHY,I know for sure that you might have already come up with a straight reason why you want to quit a habit like - wanting to quit an habit because it's bad and unhealthy, or it's eating up your finance e.t.cBut these answers are not a big enough reason to fuel your willpower. Your addictions already have a huge power over you, your big why has to be something extraordinary and not something made from thin air.From your initial answer, I want you to still ask yourself WHY .Like why do you want to live a healthy life? Why are you concerned about your finances?If the reason you want to quit is because of your health, and the reason why you want a healthy life is just to enjoy life or take care of loved ones, then you VALUE your family.If finance is also included in why you want to quit, then ask yourself why you want that Financial Freedom? To live a better life and probably take care of yourself and family.If the above is accurately your stated answers then you big why, lies between FAMILY AND FINANCIAL FREEDOM.You value your FAMILY and Your biggest Goal is Financial Freedom,Let this be your BIG WHY to quit your addictions.Your addictions are not going to add any positive results to either your Value for your family or your goal to achieving financial freedom.You see how this is different from just saying " I want to quit because it's bad" ?Having a BIG WHY wouldn't just only become your source of motivation and willpower but so also will it provide you with " HOW" to quit.When you have a BIG WHY that includes your value and goal then you will go all out to get rid of your Addictions, because you know deep down in you that those Addictions would never be of help to you in the long run.Taking the bold step to BECOME A BETTER VERSION OF MYSELF was a self development journey and the Growth I attained was worth the endurance, so also was the Goal worthy of achieving.Dropping my Addictions and bad habits transformed me into a more focused, organized and energetic person.I started waking up as early as 5am daily feeling refreshed, I was taking care of my values and working on my goals.My story went from being a chronic addict to porn, masturbation, Gambling, smoking, procrastinating e.t.c to becoming a transformed psychotherapist, helping others to win the battle against their addictions and bad habits, also guiding them on how to deal with depression anxiety and other psychological problems through self development. And also a freelance copywriter on the side.Not only have getting rid of my Addictions helped me gain clarity, purpose, happiness and peace in life, it has also helped shape me into becoming a better person socially too.Being free from your Addictions will free the Godlike version of you, you will feel like a more advanced human who makes better decisions. Having control over your own life will restore your natural energy, confidence and all other features.You will start seeing things clearly for what they are, you will handle relationships better, it will help you find and understand what true love is all about, you start living a more fulfilled life in happiness and peace. You start dealing with pains and problems properly without having to bury them.I was able to reach my potential and discovered who I actually was when I quitted my Addictions and embarked on a self development journey.You will never know your true potential and your greatness until you quit your Addictions.DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA THE LEVEL OF GREATNESS YOU CAN REACH IN LIFE IF YOU DROP YOUR ADDICTIONS AND BAD HABITS TODAY?Trust me, the breakthrough and success you seek is right there within you,You just need to dismantle your Addictions and bad habits in order to fulfill your dreams.You have the potentials to reach a higher level and version of YOU.But you will never know this until you tackle your BIGGEST ENEMY, which is YOU.You became a slave to your own urges and pleasures, it's time to deal with that and take back control over your own life .You can never reach your full potential or discover your true self until you BECOME A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.keep this in mind " YOU DON'T GET IN LIFE WHAT YOU WANT, YOU GET IN LIFE WHAT YOU ARE" .Let me help you reach your potential and discover your true self by becoming your guide, holding you by the hands and through my experience I will help you BECOME A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.Let me guide you through a journey towards self awareness and living a life of purpose in peace and help you quit your Addictions and bad habits.I recently launched a guide book titled BECOME A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.This guide book contains a detailed explanation and step by step guide from own personal experience on how anyone can win the battle against Addictions, bad habits, depression, anxiety, including:- How to break free from any bad habits (smoking, porn, masturbation, procrastination, pills, Gambling e.t.c), no matter how long it has been
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- How to Deal with Depression and Anxiety
- How to achieve Financial Freedom
- The power of Growth Mindset
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